One of the scriptures that I have been pondering for the past several months is this one found in Doctrine and Covenants 93:40, 42
"But I have commanded you to bring up your children in light and truth".
"You have not taught your children light and truth, according to the commandments; and that wicked one hath power, as yet, over you, and this is the cause of your affliction".
It's a continual quest for all of us to provide this sanctuary for our children especially if we are doing it alone. But, I do believe that the Lord will help us as we continue to strive for this and let-go of things that aren't in this category.